- 1 Dating in Ukraine – How to Pick up Girls in Ukraine? I Asked The Locals!
- 1.1 The Truth About Dating in Ukraine
- 1.2 Asking the local girls from Ukraine for advice
- 1.3 The results
- 1.4 Open question: What advice would you give foreigners who want to date Ukrainian girls?
- 1.5 Conclusion: The best method to pick up girls & start dating in Ukraine
- 1.6 Final Words
Dating in Ukraine – How to Pick up Girls in Ukraine? I Asked The Locals!
Let’s be honest here. You must have seen a million articles claiming they own the secret to successfully start dating in Ukraine & pick up girls in Ukraine, am I right? They all promise the best pick-up lines, tips and tricks and with just a few words all women will worship you and fall head over heels in love with you.
“Yeah, how is that working out for you..?”
Of course it is not working out, because 99% of these articles are bullsh*t. They are written by these so-called “pick-up artist” or “dating gurus” that earn a (..) load of money by selling you the idea that meeting girls is easy.
“Notice something else? No? Look closer.. They are all written by guys!”
I have a very simple philosophy when it comes to dating or business in general. You would not buy a car from a dodgy car-dealer nor would you take fitness advice from a fat personal trainer. In order to be successful in dating girls in Ukraine (or in any country as a matter of fact) you will need to find out what they want.
Once you figured that out, you will notice that finding a date in Ukraine is not that difficult.
Why waste time with useless information if you can get direct feedback from the source itself?
If you recognize this, “Dating in Ukraine – How to Pick up Girls in Ukraine? I Asked The Locals!” is the perfect blog post for you! It will make looking for a Ukraine girlfriend much easier!
The Truth About Dating in Ukraine
Have you ever noticed how easy things are available in our current society? With the press of a button we can now order our clothes, food for the week, prescription for the doctor and even a date for the evening.
Everything needs to be instantly available and we rather buy a book of some random dating expert claiming he is “Gods gift to Ukrainian women” that sells you every convenient shortcut possible, then doing the research ourselves.
Well, I am here to tell you that you don’t have to buy anything to learn how to date Ukrainian girls. In fact, I am about to present to you a lot of information on how to successfully date girls from Ukraine for absolutely nothing.
“Why, you might ask?”
Not because I am such a nice guy, but because I understand where you are coming from!
You are tired of paying for dating information or profiles without getting the results that you are looking for and getting scammed left and right.
Well, good news for you as my “No Cure, No Pay” dating principle will get you access to truth for no financial commitment and all.
“Are you ready for the truth? Are you 100% sure?”
The truth is that dating in Ukraine will not be easy and you won’t be successful at all at the beginning. You are dealing with a different culture, country and mentality and there are no shortcuts to understand those aspects in life. There you go, the truth served on a cold plate called reality. You’re welcome!
“But will these difficulties cause any problems in my dating game?”
Of course not. Because now you begin to understand you need to work hard and develop and effective strategy to become successful in dating girls.
And in order to do so you will need to keep pushing and adjusting in order to find your best methods. To help you with this, I interviewed a group of Ukrainian girls and asked their opinion of dating Western men and what approach they think works best to pick up girls in Ukraine.
I am giving you a blueprint on how girls like to picked up by Western men. Not some magic book, not some secret juicy formula and definitely not article on the “Top 10 best pick up lines for girls in the Ukraine”.
Just common sense and a lot of feedback from the ladies.
“How to use this feedback to your advantage?”
Therefore we need to first read and understand what the girls are saying. Only then can you make a solid plan and start figuring out what the girl you are interested in really likes.
Online Dating in Ukraine
If you’re considering heading to Ukraine, you should definitely consider doing some online dating in preparation of your trip. It will prepare you for the local dating game and make sure you will be ready for any questions the Ukrainian girls might ask you.
It also protects you from any scammers you can encounter during the Kiev nightlife adventures as you will already know the person before you arrive. I highly recommend you do not just try to meet women blindly as your level of success will be very little if you do not speak fluent Russian.
I recommend Ukraine Cupid as the best Belarus Dating Site. Tinder and Badoo are not very popular in Ukraine, and a lot of girls actually use Ukraine Cupid as they know that most foreign men use that website.
It also gives you the chance to meet girls that actually speak English. Because let’s be honest? How good is your Russian these days?
Hmmm.. I am waiting? Exactly!
Sign up for free, check out all the profiles and try to find as many Ukrainian women as possible to talk to.
Asking the local girls from Ukraine for advice
During my questionnaire I asked over 100 Ukrainian women from the cities Kiev, Odessa, Vinnytsja, Kryvy Rih and Lviv about their experiences with meeting men from foreign countries.
The questionnaire consisted of 15 multiple choice questions and one open question. Of the 100 subscribers, 98% answered the questionnaire. Their ages varied between 19 and 38 years old and 72% of participants were single at the time of answering this questionnaire.
When asked if they would be interested in dating men from a foreign country, 95% said yes and 5% said no. It was interesting to see that of this 95%, almost 75% would prefer a man from Western Europe or The United States of America/Canada. The other 25% was divided between Middle East (12%), Australia (5%), China (3%) and Others (5%).
Regarding the importance of a traditional family role in relationship a stunning 98% said it was still important. For a gift on the first date: 72% of the girl’s preferred flowers, whilst 28% said chocolates.
Although the location was not very important to most of the girls, 64% said they preferred that the men would order the meal and drink for them.
89% mentioned that they expect the men to pay for the first date and 69% said that personal hygiene and sense for fashion are important trades.
For picking up girls on the spot only 64% said that they would be willing to provide their phone number, but interesting enough almost 76% would prefer a straight forward request then a smooth pick-up line.
Open question: What advice would you give foreigners who want to date Ukrainian girls?
Of the 98 participants, 6 Ukrainian girls shared their experiences by filling in the open questions. They tried their best to answer the questions in English.
A first impression
“You never get a second chance to make a first impression. I one time had an American guy who had the worse haircut (to cover his bald spot) and was wearing a t-shirt with Pugsley dogs, trying to convince me that he was rich business men and that it would be smart to date him. Sorry, but looks are also important to me. If look like this I think you are not serious. I also earn my own money and I am not a mail-order bride”
– Anastasia from Odessa (26)
Why are you here?
” My first question will be why they are visiting Ukraine? Unfortunately, I encounter a lot of visitors who are just looking for fun and sex. I have no interest in such activities and I can spot those men from miles away. Most of the time they are 20 years older than me.”
– Natasha from Vinnytsja (36)
Paying the bill on a first date
“I one time went out with a Greek gentleman in Odessa. He was a nice guy and the evening was going great until it was time to pay the bill. He wanted me to pay 50% for first date. You can call me old-fashion, but for me it is very important a men shows he is financially in charge. He does not need to be rich, but I work full-time and unfortunately Ukrainian salaries are extremely low compared to European countries. I make a great effort to look my best when going on a date and invest a lot of my own money in my looks, therefore I think it should be compensated from his side as well”
– Anna from Kryvy Rih (21)
Keep it simple
“My boyfriend from United States asked me out on holiday in Odessa. He learned how to say I am beautiful and if I would like a drink in Russian. He also said his Russian is very bad. It was the perfect combination of try speak Russian and humour. We still Skype almost everyday.”
– Anna from Kiev (20)
I am shy, because my English is not that good
“I am still learning English and a very nice man talk to me from UK. Because I am shy and not speak good English he think I am not interested in him. It was not so easy speak to him in English and say I don’t speak and write good English. I am little bit shy when I am speaking it. I hope men will understand it is not so easy for me and have patience.
– Svetlana from Kiev (29)
Flowers always work
“Flowers always work. My German boyfriend asked me out with flowers. I was working at the café and had seen him a few times already. My co-workers were very happy for me. We are still together”
– Yula from Lviv (34)
Conclusion: The best method to pick up girls & start dating in Ukraine
As I mentioned earlier, getting feedback from local woman can definitely improve your dating game. They can give you valuable information on how to make the first step on becoming successful in the dating game. According to the data this would be the best approach when picking up girls in Ukraine.
1#) Before asking out anybody you should be well dressed and have an overall good appearance
2#) Ukrainian girls can be asked out publicly, but in a straight forward matter. No fancy pick up lines.
3#) It should be asked in Russian first, but explain also that it is not your first language. It is about the effort
4#) Humour is key
5#) When offering a meal or drink, take charge and order for her. You can ask beforehand what she likes.
6#) If you can’t go for a drink right away, ask for her phone number and bring flowers or chocolates on your first date
7#) Always pay for the meal and drinks on the first date.
Although 98 women is of course a very small sample size, it could be a first stepping-stone to a bigger questionnaire in the near future. I hope the results will help you out, but you can also start doing your own research.
Having said that, I am sure you are wondering: “Do my own research?” Well yes, because we got a lot more blog posts for you to read!
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